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Many studies over the years have shown that men and women perceive and remember aspects of their lives in different ways— often from a very young age—and that the roots of some of our mistakes can be traced back, at least in part, to these differences in perception and memory. Take, for instance, the way men and women perceive risk. Across a variety of areas, women have been shown to be more risk averse than men—a finding that appears to be reflected in the Army’s friendly-fire study. When the female soldiers were confronted with a risky situation—shoot or don’t shoot—they typically chose the more risk-averse option: don’t shoot.
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In particular, they have focused on five types of risks:
1. Financial
2. Health and safety
3. Recreational
4. Ethics
5. Social
A few years ago they gave questionnaires to more than five hundred men and women, from teenagers to people in their mid-forties. For each category of risk, the people in the study were asked roughly twenty questions…. They were asked to answer each question by assigning it a risk rating on a scale from to 5, with I being “not at all risky” and 5 being “extremely risky.”
In four of the five areas examined, Weber found that women appeared to be significantly more risk averse than men. (The one exception was the area of social risk.) Men were also significantly more likely to engage in the most risky behaviors than were women (again, with the exception of social risk).
The interesting question, of course, is: Why? To find out, Weber and her colleagues asked their subjects, in effect, to provide a cost-benefit analysis of each type of activity. How much risk did they perceive to be involved? And how much benefit did they think that amount of risk would bring them? When she analyzed the answers, Weber found something surprising: men weren’t necessarily more risk seeking; they just valued the benefits of that risk more (140) than the women did (the one exception, again, being the social category).
…. But the perceived benefits of such an activity, she found, can be quite different, and this difference in perception can often explain why women won’t take some chances that men will: they think they’re not worth the risk.
Lying and Lottery Tickets
Men and women not only perceive some aspects of the world differently; they often perceive themselves differently. When it comes to making mistakes, for instance, women appear to be harder on themselves than men are. For example, studies have shown that men tend to forget their mistakes more readily than women do. And mistakes appear to dog women in ways that do not bother men. In interviews, for instance, women indicate that situations involving failure affect their self-esteem more than do situations involving success; no such difference has been reported for men.
For many traits women have also been found to be less optimistic (or perhaps more realistic) than men….(141) Even when they tell lies, men and women have been shown to lie in different ways. College men tell more lies about themselves…tending to exaggerate their plans and achievements…. College women, on the other hand, tend to lie to enhance another person.
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A Computer Error
Other types of gender-related errors are less obvious. Take, for instance, the way we use computers. Like math and war, the computer world is male dominated. After peaking in 1985 at 37 percent, the share of bachelor’s degrees in computer science awarded to women has steadily fallen. Today, women receive just over 22 percent of them, or about one out of every five.
This gap intrigues the Microsoft employee Laura Beckwith, who herself recently obtained a Ph.D. in computer science. Beckwith specializes in studying the way people use computers to solve everyday problems. A few years ago she noticed that men were more likely than women to use advanced software features, especially ones that help users find and fix errors. This process of (142) fixing errors is known as debugging, and it’s a crucial step in building software programs that work.
Beckwith thought this gap could be explained not so much by a difference in ability as by a difference in confidence. When it comes to solving problems, a lack of confidence has been shown to affect not only the outcome we achieve but the approach we take. This is a subtle difference, but an important one. Among other things, self-doubters are slower to abandon faulty strategies and less likely to come up with alternatives: they stay the course.
So Beckwith, with the help of colleagues, devised a test of her own. First, she tested the confidence levels of a group of men and women by asking them whether they thought they could find and fix errors in spreadsheets filled with formulas. Then she sat them down in front of computers and had them do exactly that, working against the clock.
The key to success was using the debugging feature of the spreadsheet software. But Beckwith found that only those women who believed they could do the task successfully—that is, only those with high confidence—used the automated debugging tools. The women with lower confidence, on the other hand, relied on what they knew, which was editing the formulas one by one. This approach actually ended up introducing more bugs into the system than when they started.
This was puzzling. Beckwith knew from questionnaires handed out after the test that the women understood how the debugging tools were supposed to work—yet many of the women chose not to use them. Why? Once again the answer comes down to the ways men and women perceive risk. When the women Beckwith’s study did their own private cost-benefit analysis, (143) many of them concluded that the risk of making a mistake by using the debugging tools was not worth the potential reward of fixing the bugs.
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We All Think We’re Above Average
Not long ago a Princeton University research team asked people to estimate how susceptible they and “the average person” were to a long list of judgmental biases. Most of the people claimed to be less biased than most people. Which should come as no surprise: most of us hate to think of ourselves as average—or, God forbid, below average. So we walk around with the private conceit that we are above average, and in that conceit lies the seed of many mistakes.
“Overconfidence is, we think, a very general feature of human psychology,” says Stefano Della Vigna, a professor of economics at the University of California, Berkeley…. And his research has led him to a general conclusion: “Almost everyone is overconfident—except the people who are depressed, and they tend to be realists.”